By Caroline Colvin May 29, If being blindfolded, getting handcuffed, or simply surrendering control during sex makes you tingle, you're probably the submissive partner in a BDSM dynamic. The submissive, or "sub," is the partner who gives up power or submits. The dominant, or "dom," exerts power over the sub, or dominates.
If you're a sub who's looking for sexts to send your domsextjng dirty texts about giving up control will give your partner a thrill. Sex educator Lola Jean ly spoke to Elite Daily about the mainstream portrayal of BDSM, and said, exxamples gets lost is the understanding, effort, and responsibility that comes with being a dominant, or the simultaneous control and vulnerability that comes with being a submissive.
Maybe you call your partner "Daddy" or "Mommy" during tender sex.
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Or maybe you get off on light spankingor experimenting with ice cubes. While sextkng you act on kinks is negotiable, remember that ongoing, enthusiastic consent is not — it's essential. After outlining boundaries and agreeing on a safe wordyou and your dom are good to get freaky — both IRL and digitally.
The following sexts are perfect for hyping up your dom to take control. How would you feel about handcuffing me to the bed?
I want you to sextng your hands up and down my body while I'm tied up. I can't wait for you to push me against the wall and make out with me.
I really want you to choke me. Make me beg for it.
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Please use my face as a seat. I can't stop thinking about you bending me over and spanking me. I want you to tie me up and lick every part of me. Please climb on top of me and pin me to the mattress.
How would you feel if I sucked on your fingers? I'm sextung on thinking about all the bad things I want you to do to me. I want you to spread me open and hold my legs while you're eating me out.
I can't wait to get on my knees for you like a good sub. Just like with kinky sex IRL, aftercare post-coital time and attention to come down after intense BDSM is a solid practice to engage in while sexting your dom, too. And with one of the above sexts, you're going to need a cool-down after you two go at it. More like this.